The Ten Commandments
Q10. What does this mean?
We should fear and love God so that we do not hurt our neighbor in any way. Instead, we should help them and take care of them when they need it.
Scripture Proofs — King James Version
Matthew 5:21–22
“Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not kill; and whosoever shall kill shall be in danger of the judgment: But I say unto you, That whosoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment.”
Romans 12:18–20
“If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men. Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord. Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head.”
1 John 3:15
Parent Guide
Discuss this question together
Discussion Questions
- 1
What does Luther say we should do instead of hurting our neighbor?
- 2
Who counts as your "neighbor" according to this commandment?
- 3
When was the last time you helped someone who needed it, and when did you walk past instead?
Illustration
The commandment does not just say "do not hurt." It says "help and take care of." A lifeguard who sits in his chair and watches someone drown has not done his job, even though he never pushed anyone underwater. God holds you responsible not just for the harm you cause, but for the good you fail to do.
Application
Look for one person this week who needs help. It could be a younger sibling, a lonely classmate, or a neighbor. Do something concrete for them. Ask God to open your eyes to see needs you would normally walk past.
Read Luther’s expanded teaching
From the Large Catechism (1529)