Lord’s Day 39
Q104. What does God want from you in the fifth commandment?
That I honor, love, and be loyal to my father and mother and everyone in authority over me. That I obey them and accept their correction, and that I be patient with their weaknesses — because God has chosen to lead us through them.
Scripture Proofs — King James Version
Exodus 21:17
Proverbs 1:8
Proverbs 4:1
Romans 13:1–2
Ephesians 5:21–22
“Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God. Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.”
Ephesians 6:1–9
Colossians 3:18–4:1
Proverbs 20:20
Proverbs 23:22
“Hearken unto thy father that begat thee, and despise not thy mother when she is old.”
1 Peter 2:18
Matthew 22:21
Romans 13:1–8
Ephesians 6:1–9
Colossians 3:18–21
Parent Guide
Discuss this question together
Discussion Questions
- 1
Who are the people in authority over you that this commandment talks about?
- 2
Why does God ask you to be patient with the weaknesses of those in authority?
- 3
What is one way you can show honor to your parents this week?
Illustration
A soldier follows orders from an officer, not because the officer is perfect, but because the officer holds a position of authority. Parents, teachers, and other leaders are not perfect either. God placed them over you, and honoring them is a way of honoring him.
Application
Choose one chore or instruction your parents give you this week and do it the first time you are asked, without complaining. Because God leads you through your parents, obeying them promptly is a way of thanking God for his care.